
What would you do if your spouse cheated on you...would you want to stay married?
God asked a certain prophet named Hosea to marry a prostitute and to remain faithful even though she would not remain faithful to him. Do you think you could do what God asked Hosea to do? Imagine Hosea's surprise when God asked him to take on this assignment. I would have loved to be a part of that conversation. If it was like mine and God's there was a lot of questioning on Hosea's part and he was really asking, "are You sure?"
Can you imagine Hosea asking Gomer to marry him? Or how that even happened? It had to be weird on both sides. Imagine marrying her knowing that she was going to be with other men, but he was still intimate with her. We know that Hosea fathered at least three of her children. Being intimate had to be difficult, just being a husband had to be hard for him. Knowing what was happening he had to have asked God, "Okay, how long do I have to endure this?" Read Hosea, it never says that they divorced or that he left her.
But this story isn't just about Hosea and Gomer or God and the Israelites or even the Father waiting for the prodigal son to come home. It is about us and our relationship with God. We all have a sin or struggle that we cannot seem to shake or get rid of...we ALL have at least one that we sit there and go...crap I did it again! Whether it be anger, bitterness, greed, envy, jealousy, gossip, lust, cussing etc...fill in the blank. When we do it we know we are letting God down and that is one of the worst feelings in the world.
Try to imagine God saying to you what He said in Hosea 2:2, “But now bring charges against Israel—your mother—for she is no longer my wife, and I am no longer her husband." OUCH!!! Imagine breaking God's heart soooo much that He finally has enough and wants to break it off. He gives you a divorce certificate. How would you feel?
We might say, "I thought He loved His people? That seems pretty harsh." But we put God in a catch 22 don't we...We curse Him when things go bad and we forget Him when things are going great.
But the awesome part is that God never does give us the divorce certificate...
This paints a beautiful picture of God's undying love for His people...
But we don't keep cheating on God just because He will forgive us. Paul warns us in Galatians 5:13 not to use our freedom to do what we please.
Where many of us would have bailed long ago, God sees redemption. Where we see damaged goods, God sees people with purpose.
Read Hosea chapter 2: 8, 13
This doesn't sound like a ticked off God. I picture the tears of a Father when he sees a hurting child. Yes, He is disappointed when I mess up, absolutely, it crushes Him! He doesn't ever enjoy disciplining us either. Why do I say that? Because when I read Hosea 2:13-16 I see a God that is in pursuit of you and I.
He will win us back...
Speak tenderly to me...
Transform my situation (whether circumstances or sin) into hope.
We will have intimacy with God again, a love that no human body can contain.
More importantly we will always have a relationship with Him, at least on His part.
Look at Hosea 2:19-20
Forever you will be His, this doesn't sound like someone who is tired of you.
He shows you a better way to live
Unfailing, always there
His compassion runs deep
You will know Him as God, your God.
Hosea 3:1 tells us that no matter what we do God will still love us...
The best thing to know is that you are not alone in this battle...even though you feel like it. You feel dumped on by this world, nothing seems to be going right, God is telling you He understands. We have done the same thing to Him for years and yet, He still pursues us even though He shouldn't give (at least me) the time of day. We get mad at Him when He doesn't seem to be working on our time table or is slow in answering a prayer or doesn't seem to answer at all. But the bottom line is we should tremble in awe of the Lord and His goodness as Hosea writes in 3:5. Yes, we do get beat down. Yes, we do screw up. But you know what? God is bigger than my sin and my circumstances. This isn't just a pep talk. I have been in the valley and on the mountain top. I have received good and bad news and God has asked me to do some hard things. But to know God is in pursuit of us is amazing all in itself, especially when I think about how much I have let God down. You confess - God forgives, I believe John tells us that in 1 John 1:9. And Paul tells us in Romans 8:38 that nothing can ever separate us from His love.
We bring the divorce papers - not God! We reject Him - He does not reject us!
Someone needs to hear that today...I know I did.
Read Hosea
6:6 - wants us to show love and to know Him
7:7 - wants us to cry out to Him
7:8 - wants to redeem us
7:14 - wants honesty from our hearts, tell Him how you really feel
7:16 - wants us to turn to Him
8:12 - wants us to listen to Him because He knows what is best
8:14 - when He is showering blessings on us (which is more than we give Him credit for) don't
forget Him
11:1 - He loves us
11:2 - He is calling us
11:3 - He helps us in our journey
11:4 - He leads us
11:8 - He doesn't give up on us
12:6 - Come back to Him when you find yourself slipping, learn to love and speak for those who
cannot speak for themselves, and always depend on Him
14:1 - Confess your sins/struggles to Him
14:2 - He will forgive us and graciously receive us.
14:7 - Be restored, refreshed and renewed...
Be blessed,
Steve

